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Single Moms – Skate and Get a Date Anyone?

Saturday, December 8th, 2007

Saturday mornings from 10:00 to 12:00, our local skating rink is open to eight-year-old (and under) children only. I thought this was fabulous because my daughter is just learning how to skate. It’s terrifying when you have older, more experienced skaters flying around you and you’re flailing your arms like you might actually take flight. (Aw, she’s so cute.)

Anyway, it was better than I could hope. We were actually the first on the floor! (And, yes, I mean “we”.) I have to tell you I was more worried about myself. I thought it would be like riding a bike but I was pretty shaky! I actually sat down on the carpet and scooted to the floor to stand up. (I know you’re embarrassed for me.)

Well, I’m telling you this to give you forewarning of what to expect when it’s your turn and to tell you what else I noticed – there were many single dads there with their kids. I was shocked. I was only one of two moms there. Those are some good odds ladies! LOL!

There were three types of dads from what I could tell. There was the dad who sat on his laptop the whole time, the dad who was too cool to do anything but observe, and the dad who actually put skates on and went out there on the floor with his kids. Now, ladies, if I was looking (and I’m not), he’s the one who my eye would be on.

There was actually a dad out there trying to learn how to skate himself! Now, he wasn’t single as his wife was there to cheer him on. (They were cute.) You could tell he was really happy to get to the back wall where he could have something to hold on to. I tried hard not to get tickled but he looked exhausted! And what a cute site to see his five year old in front of him, head down really concentrating and dad behind her, head down really concentrating. Love it!

I do think this is something you single moms out there should think about. A dad who takes his kids skating has something going for him, I think. And if he actually happens to put on a pair of skates to join them? Maybe you two should accidentally meet on the floor? (Um, just do it in a way that no one ends up injured.) Have fun!

She’s my muse

Wednesday, November 14th, 2007

My daughter left the house this morning with her pants cuffed and I am unsure how many barrettes in her hair. The cuffed pants involved one single roll that brought the bottom of her pants just below her knee. Are you picturing her a bit better now?

She asked me, “What? Do you think I look bad?” I just got out, “Well…” when she said, “Well, I like it.” To which I replied, “That’s all that matters, Baby.”

We have an understanding: She picks whatever she wants to wear (within reason) and how she wants to wear it (within reason). I don’t say anything except a gentle suggestion here and there. She lets me pick what she wears on important occasions and she cannot argue with me about it.

Our arrangement works well. Well, except for the fact that I fear what her teachers must think. I’ve caught myself wanting to send a note with her to school “Yes, as a matter of fact, I did see what she was wearing when she left the house. Isn’t she cute?”

Honestly, I envy my daughter’s sense of self. She’s simply amazing to me. I let her out of the car this morning and I found myself fighting the urge to chase her down to hug her. She’s beautiful and I love seeing the world through her eyes.

She’s a lucky girl…

Saturday, April 29th, 2006

Her Uncle Darrell loves her this much…

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When was the last time you let your five-year-old niece paint your toenails with pretty glitter and hearts? :D